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This Research Project Had a
Happy Ending


By Paul Feinberg '85

Published Feb 12, 2014 8:00 AM

Chris McKinlay met fellow Bruin Christine Tien Wang while studying the science behind OkCupid.


Chris McKinlay, M.A. '08, Ph.D. '13, and Christine Tien Wang, M.F.A. '13

Back in the day, love potions had numbers.

Today, they have algorithms.

In 2012, Chris McKinlay M.A. ’08, Ph.D. ’13 spent most of his time working on his dissertation dealing with high-dimensional clustering. In his spare time, he answered questions on the dating website OkCupid.

McKinlay decided to apply the same high-level mathematics he was using in his doctoral research to understand how OkCupid really worked. “I was interested in meeting someone," says McKinlay, who is now doing postdoctoral work at the University of Minnesota. “But it started off as an intellectual exercise. Once I realized how effective [the site’s method] was though, I decided to take the dating part more seriously.”

OkCupid matches singles through a series of questions: You state how you’d like someone else to answer and rate how important each question is to you. To view another user’s answers, you must first answer the same questions yourself. McKinlay says most users start off answering the questions ad hoc, without regard to how each answer will affect one’s matches in a high-dimensional space.

After a month of gathering data, McKinlay figured out which questions were most important and that responses clustered around a set of common beliefs. “When 20,000 women answer enough questions, you get seven different archetypes, or clusters,” he says. Armed with his research, he adjusted his own profile to better match the archetypes that most appealed to him.


Christopher McKinlay's book

The results were immediate and dramatic.

“I started receiving several hundred profile views a day, a 20-fold increase,” he says. “And I started getting 10 unsolicited messages a day, when most men get zero.”

He found he was now a top match for a sizeable proportion of the OkCupid population. He started going on dates — lots of them.

“I went on one date a day for three months over the summer of 2012,” he says. “The first few dates were romantic, like hikes and dinners, but that became exhausting.” He switched over to 20-minute coffee dates, finding he could learn more about a person in a simpler environment.

After a while, he says he had to step back and figure out why he was going on so many dates. Was it just to see how long he could keep it going?

That’s when he met Christine Tien Wang M.F.A. ’13, an artist and prison activist.

“Her message was different. It was very direct and very real,” McKinlay says.

Says Wang: “The idea that women could be grouped into general clusters was interesting. As a cultural thinker and an artist, I thought about the clusters from an idea of gender performativity and psychoanalysis.”

The project has led to a planned summer 2015 wedding and also to a book by McKinlay. Optimal Cupid: Mastering the Hidden Logic of OkCupid has attracted major media interest and inquiries from movie studios who think the project has a (500) Days of Summer feel.

“Social media is ubiquitous now and we’re all data scientists,” McKinlay says. “The question is: Are we effective?”



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